本研究以「一位大陸女性配偶看護來台的生命歷程」為主題，旨在探討：一、瞭解大陸女性配偶對兩岸婚姻的看法與感受。二、瞭解大陸女性配偶如何看待自己在台的夫妻關係與婚姻角色。三、瞭解大陸女性配偶在看護工作中如何找到自我價值之生命歷程。透過敘事研究的方法，引導大陸女性配偶看護從生活經驗與感受、事實出發，透過非結構性、開放、平等的深度訪談法，取得資料文本並進行詮釋分析，在生命故事的建構上，以「整體—內容」分析。目的是通過一位大陸女性配偶看護的眼光，來觀察這個世界，在自我敘述中反思自己的生命，並在反思中改進生活實踐，重建自己的生命歷程。 研究顯示（一）在研究參與者的生命故事中，早年的寄養家庭沒有得到關懷和愛及歸屬感的經驗，對日後的影響及大，也會延續到婚姻裡。（二）在台灣的婚姻，是一種銀貨兩訖的夫妻關係。從妻子角色與台籍配偶做出假結婚的協議，不履行婚姻實質關係，用金錢的收受與回饋，才能達到和諧的婚姻關係。（三）看護工作找到自我的位置。藉由看護工作不斷的照顧弱勢生病的「他者」，在陪伴與照顧這樣的一個「他者」的生病歷程中，找到存在的自主性，重新尋找不同以往的生活模式。 This study aims to discuss the following topics under the thematic title of “The Life process of a Mainland Female Spouse Nurse Aid”: Firstly, to understand the way her look and feel toward their cross-strait marriage. Secondly, to obtain the thoughts regarding to their couple relationships. Thirdly, to realize how do they interpret their roles in this marriage. Fourthly, to comprehend the role of being nurse aids her have acted. Through the methodology of Narrative Research, guiding our interviewee to tell her story grounds on the life experience and feeling. The technique we adopt here is a depth interview from a non-structural, open and equal angle. And construct our life story by the analysis in the aspect of “wholeness—content.” The purpose is to observe the world , from the eyesight of a Mainland female spouse nurse aid, and reflect one’s life while doing the self-narration, improving one’s life practicum and reconstructing one’s life process. The results of our study shows: First, the life story of our research participant reveals that the lack experience of carefulness, love and belongingness in her foster family had a big affect on her later-on life including marriage. Second, her marriage in Taiwan is a trade and false one which can be sustained only through the money feedback. Third, building up her significant life through constantly caring the weak “others,” finding out her own existential independence and rediscovering a totally different life mode than ever.
